"I don't care," said Pierre, a favorite cartoon of mine growing up. Over the years it's been a struggle to balance apathy and passion appropriately
"Subtlety #1: Not giving a damn does not mean being indifferent; it means being comfortable with being different."
I liked this--
"Subtlety #2: To not give a **** about adversity, you must first give a **** about something more important than adversity."
So simple, so useful. Never heard it put that way.
There's nothing more infuriating than "why do you care so much?", partly because passion can come with a lot of shame, and it's so colorful and productive; why should it be repressed? The solution is not to stop caring, but simply to refocus or transcend.
I'm always looking for ways to care less and this mantra nails it. How to balance apathy with passion in a way that doesn't make you a total asshole.